7 ‘Outdated’ Dating Rules We Should Bring Back Old-timey dating rules get a bad rap for good reason. Overall, they tend to propagate silly, non-feminist notions about finding love: “Wait for him to ask you out. A lady never makes the first move.” “Follow the three-day rule: Don’t contact your date until three whole days have passed.”… Continue Reading
Have you ever gotten swept up in the magic and romance of a movie or a song? Do you ever ask yourself, “Why can’t I find love?” The truth is that it’s a lot easier to depict a picture-perfect whirlwind courtship in a romantic comedy than to replicate that experience in real life. When it comes… Continue Reading
7 ‘Outdated’ Dating Rules We Should Bring Back Old-timey dating rules get a bad rap for good reason. Overall, they tend to propagate silly, non-feminist notions about finding love: “Wait for him to ask you out. A lady never makes the first move.” “Follow the three-day rule: Don’t contact your date until three whole days have passed.”… Continue Reading
Everyone experiences extreme life events that impact how we think, act and behave throughout our loves. If you’ve experienced trauma, physical, verbal or emotional abuse in your family or past relationships, this week’s episode will resonate with you. You’ll hear Kimmy have a coaching call with Margaret, a healthcare worker who is struggling to move… Continue Reading
The Scoop: Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Specialist Kimmy Seltzer has seen more of her clients find serious relationships during the COVID-19 pandemic than ever before. She said the pandemic has helped people realize the importance of relationships, and many have renewed their focus on dating. In 2020, Kimmy shifted her in-person coaching to virtual sessions that teach… Continue Reading
When you are in a relationship and you feel something is wrong, chances are that you are right. Even if your cheating partner is trying very hard to hide their infidelity, you can still spot some changes in his or her behavior. The problem is that when you love someone, you may avoid the pain… Continue Reading
Today we’d like to introduce you to Kimmy Seltzer. Thanks for sharing your story with us Kimmy. So, let’s start at the beginning and we can move on from there.So much of life is impacted by outward appearances. Decisions are made, judgments are formed, relationships shift, lives are altered–all by what we perceive on the… Continue Reading
Today, Kimmy’s a font of knowledge when it comes to dating and relationships. But that wasn’t always the case. Kimberly found herself unexpectedly single while living in LA, and it took a special revelation to find her way back to confidence…Kimmy talks about doing a lot of inner work at this point. Kimmy talks about doing a lot of inner work at this point…. Continue Reading
Here’s What To Know. There’s a reason more couples are moving in together and rushing to get engaged during quarantine and the coronavirus pandemic. On their first date in mid-February, Geoff Smith and his now-girlfriend, Ellie, made small talk about the coronavirus, which at the time the U.S. government had just declared a public health emergency. “I… Continue Reading
Summer dating forecast and the new relationships trends. A targeted style, emotional and social intelligence blog from Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist Kimmy Seltzer. Weathering the storms. In the past few months, you have been getting used to the new way of meeting people. You might be contained in the comfort of your home,… Continue Reading
People around the world are grappling with changes to daily life since the coronavirus outbreak, which has introduced the concept of social distancing and even placed people under quarantine. Still, singles everywhere are swiping on dating apps for the sake of companionship, conversation and even hopeful romantic connections during this difficult time. Meanwhile, those who use Tinder have been… Continue Reading
Sorry, now you have to worry about this every February. No breakup is ever well-timed, but there’s something particularly poorly planned about doing it just weeks before Valentine’s Day. Just ask Amy Luong. Up until recently, Luong, a 23-year-old account coordinator from Des Moines, Iowa, thought she was on sure footing in her yearlong relationship. She and her boyfriend had… Continue Reading
“You must remember this: A kiss is just a kiss, a sigh is just a sigh…” But can we get an edit on that “Casablanca” soundtrack classic that makes it clear that two cake pops are meant to be shared, dammit?! On Friday, romance novelist Alisha Rai tweeted about a very disappointing date she’d been on the day before. Cake pops… Continue Reading
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