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HuffPost: Featuring Kim Seltzer

HuffPost: Featuring Kim Seltzer

7 ‘Outdated’ Dating Rules We Should Bring Back Old-timey dating rules get a bad rap for good reason. Overall, they tend to propagate silly, non-feminist notions about finding love: “Wait for him to ask you out. A lady never makes the first move.” “Follow the three-day rule: Don’t contact your date until three whole days have passed.”… Continue Reading

Why Are Big Dates Never Any Fun?

Why Are Big Dates Never Any Fun?

Why Are Big Dates Never Any Fun? After My Botched Anniversary Date, I Asked An Expert Let me set the scene: Chicago. My anniversary night. We both get off our respective restaurant shifts utterly exhausted. I put on a skirt that does not fit right and slather on makeup that has fully melted off my… Continue Reading

5 Tips for Putting Together A Fabulous Date Night Outfit

Every month, EliteSingles is proud to bring you exclusive, insightful guest posts from our favorite dating experts. Sometimes witty, sometimes opinionated, and always heartfelt, these posts can help you find a fresh perspective on dating, love, and romance. This month: makeover expert Kimberly Seltzer gives her top five tips for finding the perfect date night… Continue Reading

Master Every Job Interview with Three Transferable Skills

Master Every Job Interview with Three Transferable Skills

Your palms grow sweaty at the mere thought of your upcoming job interview. You spend hours reciting lines, reviewing your notes and studying facts about the company. You go to the interview, recite your perfectly memorized lines, and leave. You find out later that you didn’t get asked back for the job. So what happened?… Continue Reading

Body Language: attraction and its must dos and definite don’ts

Body Language: attraction and its must dos and definite don’ts

Body language is a fundamental communication tool in dating and attraction. It is an elaborate subconscious signal system that has the power to give unique insight into how your dating is actually unfolding and the significant but silent messages being sent back and forth. In order to take a look under the covers of communication,… Continue Reading

19 One-Hour Relationship Boosters That Really Work

19 One-Hour Relationship Boosters That Really Work

Flowers, chocolates, and fancy gifts only get your relationship so far. If you want your love to last, it’s the little things that really count.   Celebrate the familiar Every couple goes through relationship ruts, especially if you’re stuck in the same old routine every single day. But familiarity is only boring if you don’t… Continue Reading

How to Dress to Make a Man’s Head Turn

How to Dress to Make a Man’s Head Turn

Coco Chanel once said, “Dress poorly and people will notice your clothes; dress well, and people will notice you.” What you portray on the outside sends a message of who you are in the world so it’s important to think about what your clothes and presentation communicates to others. Moreover, there is scientific research that… Continue Reading

3 Easy Tips to Your Online Dating Success

3 Easy Tips to Your Online Dating Success

Let’s face it, online and app dating can be a daunting, exhausting and frustrating experience. You’re scrolling through hundreds of profiles to find that special someone who captures your eye. Like a slot machine, you suddenly stop at that one picture that captivates you amongst the blur of faces. It’s only then that you start… Continue Reading

How Women Can Give a Great First Date

How Women Can Give a Great First Date

It’s here! You finally have your first date with a guy after numerous exciting conversations, great photo exchanges and fun IM’s. All is looking good and the build up to this point is amazing. But now what? Your palms grow sweaty as you start to think about what to say, what to wear and create… Continue Reading

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