My Expertise & Services

Become effortlessly stylish and comfortable in your own skin!

Everything I do has one overall focus: to help each client feel good about who they are and learn how to embody it. Whether it’s putting on a pair of heels to gain a sexy swagger, smiling at a man in a coffee shop to invite conversation, or learning to date with increased positive results; it’s all about gaining confidence.

When you feel confident you attract love and opportunity in your life, and it is my goal to help you get there.

I help men and women all over the world unveil their most attractive self. Whether it’s updating your image or transforming your dating life, my philosophy is simple… work from the inside-out to achieve your goals and boost your self-confidence.

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See me as one of the main expert judges in a new docu-reality TV show about what dating, romance, and falling in love is really like. San Diego's most interesting and attractive single women compete for the affection of San Diego's most eligible bachelors.

The Romance TV Show Website

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See me as Co-Host and Leading Love Expert in this live dating show all across America. Here 100 of each city's Most Eligible Bachelors and 100 of its Most Dynamic Single Women are seated on opposite sides of the theater in a town-hall type setting. We debate and to try to answer the question... why is everyone still single?

The Great Love Debate

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Summer dating forecast and the new relationships trends.

Summer dating forecast and the new relationships trends.

Summer dating forecast and the new relationships trends. A targeted style, emotional and social intelligence blog from Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist Kimmy Seltzer. Weathering the storms. In the past few months, you have been getting used to the new way of meeting people.  You might be contained in the comfort of your home,… Continue Reading

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‘Valentighting’ Is The Dating Trend Out To Ruin Your Valentine’s Day

‘Valentighting’ Is The Dating Trend Out To Ruin Your Valentine’s Day

Sorry, now you have to worry about this every February. No breakup is ever well-timed, but there’s something particularly poorly planned about doing it just weeks before Valentine’s Day. Just ask Amy Luong. Up until recently, Luong, a 23-year-old account coordinator from Des Moines, Iowa, thought she was on sure footing in her yearlong relationship. She and her boyfriend had… Continue Reading

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