Body Language… How to Tell if She is Into You

Ever wonder if the woman is into you? Are you constantly asking yourself if you are reading the signals right?

As a dating coach I watch people in the field as they interact with the opposite sex, and I find there are distinct flirting techniques, messaging and body signals that women display when they are interested in a man. There are actually some easy signals that broadcast if she really likes you. In fact, there are some universal gestures that women express their attraction just with their body language.


Here are some quick tips to help take the guesswork out of it so that you will know if you should pursue her:


Facial Expressions

One of the simplest ways of flirting is a smile.  A smile goes a long way so if you see that woman across the way smiling or grinning at you it is a signal that they are trying to get your attention. Women will also try to get a guy’s attention with a certain sparkly look. Eyes are the window to the soul and can tell a lot. In fact, research shows that a woman’s pupil will dilate when she is sexually attracted to a man and that eye movements will move in a very specific flirtatious pattern.

Body Signals

Body posture speaks its own language of love. You just need to hone in on the signs and know how to translate it. Women will often draw attention to their neck, shoulders and wrists in order to attract male attention. Unconscious acts like shrugging the shoulders, twirling her hair, flashing the inside of the wrists and massaging her own neck are all subtle invitations for you to get closer to her. Women will engage in these alluring motions to subconsciously encourage men. Consider these signs a green light and go for it!

Preening Gestures

Like a bird cleaning and straightening its feathers, women fix themselves up to make them feel and look attractive. Women will dress in outfits that they feel sexy and confident in in an effort to capture the man’s eye. What women wear and how they present themselves on a date is a way for them to try and look good for their man. Many men mistake interest for vanity.  If your date seems to be looking in the mirror frequently, puts on lipstick after returning from the bathroom, fixes and plays with her hair, or smoothes out her dress, she is more likely trying to impress you rather than being self-obsessed.


So next time you are out on that date pay attention to whether or not she is twirling her hair! In order to avoid missing some magical opportunities, it’s important to notice these signals so that you can have confidence in pursuing things further!




This article was originally published on Digital Romance here.

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