Women pay special attention to a man’s overall presence and body language, so if you’re wondering how to attract women you’ve got to start there. The majority of all communication is nonverbal, so it’s super important that before you devise the perfect opening line to sweep her off her feet, you’re in tune with the signals your body is giving her. Here are some tips to get you started:

1. Dress the part.

Please don’t look like you just rolled out of bed! How you look is a reflection of who you are, so if you want to attract women you’ve got to look put together. You don’t have to wear a tux to show her you care; Just make sure you’re well-groomed and freshly showered.

2. Be ALPHA.

Women cannot resist a strong presence from a man, so go in with confidence so she knows you can protect and provide for her. It’s not about being controlling – it’s about being strong. Here are some easy ways to demonstrate strength to attract women:

1. Open doors for her.
2. Ask her what she’d like to eat/drink and then order it for her.
3. Pull out her chair for her.
4. Don’t fidget, bite your nails, or come across as nervous.

These actions show women that you’re strong, confident, and comfortable in your own skin. Translation? You’ll be totally sexy in her eyes!

3. Be present.

Women need men to be present, so truly listen when she speaks and make eye contact. Avoid scanning the room while she talks, and align your body with hers so she knows you’re paying attention. A great way to show her you’re listening is to bring up something she says later on in conversation. For example, if she mentioned how much she loves chocolate, at the end of the date tell her you’d love to show her this amazing fudge factory you stumbled upon during your travels.