It’s been a month since she moved out. You sit and stare at an empty couch and bed that once were occupied. Suddenly, you find yourself joining online dating sites to fill the void. You hastily scroll through hundreds of profiles, message a bunch of gorgeous, sexy women and set up a date for each night you don’t have the kids. Several men I work with at The Art of Charm come in with this scenario and with the strong desire to quickly “get back out there.” They want to know how to get their “game” on and figure out when is the best time to start dating again. Should they date right away? How do you know when you’re ready? Many people struggle with this. It’s tough to put a timeline on when to date again; it really depends on an individual’s situation.