Ever wonder how to attract the perfect man and make him fall for you? People’s desire for one another has a direct correlation to how comfortable each appears in their own skin and how solid they are in knowing themselves. It could take something as simple as putting on a pair of heels to gain a sexy swagger, smiling at a man in a coffee shop to invite conversation, or being at ease and enjoying a date. When you feel confident you attract love in your life. There is a secret formula for attraction that when implemented, you’ll start attracting men like a magnet and before you know it he’ll be on his knee begging for commitment.

 

1. Allow a man to earn you

There are different phases in dating and this means taking your time and pacing things out so that you don’t give too much away of yourself too soon or too fast. Men respect women who are able to set boundaries and set the pace and tone for what is expected from them.It sounds so simple but let go of the urgency of finding that perfect partner right away. You’ll have plenty of time to get to know if he is the right one. Avoid being too available, eager and easy. Instead ignite the pursuit and create intrigue and mystery so that the guy wants to know more of you.

 

2. Pay attention to the signals you send

93% of communication is nonverbal. So what you say isn’t even as important as how you present yourself. Guys are constantly looking for women to give them the “come talk to me” vibe because they’re terrified of rejection! Keeping that in mind, your overall goal is to use your feminine body language to show him that you’ll say yes if he asks you out. You need to turn your cab light on, send smoke signals, and hold up your dance card to men. In other words, let men know that you are available and open to talking. Smile, laugh and make eye contact every time you see a man.

 

3. Convey a sexy, feminine image

Men like to date women who look feminine, so if you really want that guy to see you as more than a friend or coworker you need to dress the part! Incorporate more curve-hugging dresses, shorter or split skirts, and sexy heels into your wardrobe, and I guarantee the men in your life will start to see you in a whole new light.

 

4. It’s all about your attitude

Research shows that upon first impression (which is in the first 30 seconds of meeting someone), a person’s attitude is one of the most important determining factors of likability. That is why it’s crucial to make sure you are in a positive mood when entering a social situation or on a date with a man.Focus on cultivating those qualities within yourself and your contagious positivity will attract great men no matter where you go! Be the person everyone wants to meet by creating a vibrant energy around you. Appear friendly and approachable.

 

5. Flirt!

The essence of flirting is expressing your interest in someone without committing yourself too seriously. In a nutshell, that means flirting is supposed to be fun and playful!If your goal is to meet a bunch of men and be friends with them then yes, by all means, continue to have boring, intellectual interactions. But if your goal is to meet a man you want to date, then embrace your femininity. Embodying your sexual, feminine side doesn’t mean you have to “dumb down” or lose who you are. Men just want to see you as positive, upbeat and playful which in turn increases their attraction to you as a woman.

 

6. Communicate and express who you are

Many women complain that conversations can get boring or one-sided when meeting a man for the first time. There are things, however, you can do to change that by simply looking at what you are offering and how you are communicating. Avoid asking a million questions of the man. Rather, ask a question and share a related personal story about yourself to his response.This balance of give and take allows a man to really “see” you and creates a connection that facilitates more exciting conversation between the two of you. Letting a man know who you are and showing your emotions and vulnerabilities will help you connect with him faster. The more you connect on an emotional level, the more someone will want to know you.

 

7. Catch him and keep him

As time goes by, you may settle into a routine and either take each other for granted or skate by without the relationship progressing to where you want. It is common for some of the excitement to go down as a relationship progresses but sometimes people drift so far apart that it’s difficult to find their way back. In order to avoid the drift or things staying too stagnant, be mindful of continuing to create fun and excitement, keep a line of open communications to what you are wanting in the relationship and keep a “dating” attitude towards each other.

Obviously, timing is everything and pacing things out is one of the most important elements in dating. What is exciting about these secret tips is that they are easy things to change, incorporate and experiment with in order to see if you get a different result with men.

 

 

 

 

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Originally published on Vixen Daily.