Are you that super nice guy who has a ton of female friends, but not a lot of girlfriends? Do you find that no matter what you do, women put you in the friend zone? Your past may have lead you to believe that all women like bad boys, but that’s simply not the case. The truth is women like nice guys – but they want their nice guys to be confident, sexy, and alluring. If you want to get out of the friend zone, you have to show her that you’re that amazing guy she’s been searching for. Here’s how to do it:

1. Master the art of alpha conversation.

When you talk to a woman, avoid “friendship topics” like the weather, facts, or sports. Also avoid mentoring her at all costs, as this will 100% land you in the friendship zone! Instead, exude a playful, alpha energy by sharing funny stories, keeping it light, and letting her know that you see her as a beautiful woman.

2. Demonstrate confidence with your body language.

Women want to feel a “buzz” around that special guy, so instead of pouncing on her (which will make her run!), you want to draw her in. To that end, don’t stand right in front of her because she’ll feel threatened. Instead, stand next to her with your body angled inward to demonstrate your interest. When it’s appropriate, lightly touch her arm, give her a sexy smirk, and make direct eye contact to spark a romantic connection.

3. Dress to impress!

Here’s a little secret about women: a man’s clothes tell us pretty much everything we need to know about how he’ll fit into our lives. For example, if a man’s clothes are tailored and fresh, we deduce that he’s neat at home and a good caretaker. That’s why we’re so attracted to men who look like they take care of themselves. To get her to see you as more than just a friend, make slim dark jeans, a button down shirt, and polished shoes your go-to outfit.