You may think you know men (after all, you’ve been dating them for long enough), but have you ever stopped to wonder what guys find sexy? Besides a killer bod and a great personality, what makes them tick? And how do you tell if a guy likes you?

In this video, Senior VP of Experts Melanie Gorman asked me and fellow YourTango Experts Lisa Steadman, Laura Campbell and Danielle Dowling. We all agreed that one of the things that men notice most about women is their confidence in themselves. Women who embrace their femininity allow men to feel strong and virile.