Getting back out there after a divorce takes time, but there are things you can do to get started and regain some of those dating skills that have been dormant. Let me help you fine tune those dating skills, rediscover your mojo and feel “dating
I know how to start dating again after divorce, because I’ve done it myself. Here’s my story:
I had a pretty ordinary life living a traditional Midwest lifestyle. I was a woman who had grown up with two loving parents in Chicago, had an amazing career as a therapist, got married in my early twenties, bought a fantastic starter red-brick bungalow home with a white picket fence and had two beautiful children. And then we moved to California.
My life at that point completely changed.
It’s humorously easy to say that I followed what all of the other Californians do and got divorced, but obviously there were other issues that led us down the path I never thought I’d go down. But then again who ever thinks that?
So there I was, a single mom trying to uncover who I was again separate from my husband and was catapulted into this thing called “dating.” I had a closet full of over-sized black “mommy” tops, a bunch of nursing bras and neutral colored Birkenstock sandals. This image was not very sexy to say the least. But more importantly, I wasn’t feeling attractive and I didn’t know how to give signals that I was even interested in men. I mean the last date I remembered was going to a toga fraternity party with my college boyfriend. Boy, are things different! I didn’t know if I would ever get my groove back and feel like a sexy, charming and dateable woman again. This is where my journey began and is why I’m so passionate about helping men and women rediscover who they are, gain confidence and attract love again.
Confidence is the number one element both men and women find attractive in one another. And when you feel confident, that is when you attract love and opportunity
in your life. But feeling secure when it comes to dating after divorce is easier said than done. One of the problems is that your identity has been with your spouse for so long that you forget who you are separate from that person. Despite its challenges, if you feel good about yourself and know what you want, finding love and dating can be a lot easier.
I’ve developed these unique “Dating After Divorce” programs to help you feel confident and comfortable dating again.